Loyalty.

Nowadays you always hear someone screaming about loyalty. Loyalty is not staying committed to something that is not good for YOU! It doesn't matter how much you have been through with a person, or how much you love them. If someone is not treating you how you want to be treated, it is not your job to be loyal to them because of a tittle. Be loyal to yourself first. Be loyal to you, because you deserve to be there for yourself first before anyone else can. We are so quick to be loyal to people or things that treat us with no respect or that hurt us. THAT IS NOT LOYALTY, that is what you call being in denial or maybe even obsessed. Loyalty is when you are there for someone or something that is good to you and for you. It's being there for that person who has always held you down and who was there when no one else was. Loyalty is giving respect and making sacrifices to those who did nothing BUT love you through and through when it mattered the MOST. Some people have natural loyalty, like family or your company, but anyone else must earn it just like they earn respect. Do not be brainwashed to be loyal to anything or anyone that does not respect your morals, boundaries, or your journey... or simply what you deserve. Be loyal to yourself by breaking toxic ties to people who don't serve your highest good. It's not about who they used to be or what they did its about now. Let go of thoughts that hold you back from moving forward and honoring yourself. Your too blessed, your too magic, your too loved, your too poised to let things keep you down or hold you back! Most importantly, there is too much promise attached to your name to be stuck in doubt or confusion. JUST DO IT. #itdidntkillyou

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